Profile of the Sociopath
This website summarizes some of the common features of descriptions of the behavior of sociopaths.
• Glibness and Superficial Charm
• Manipulative and Conning
They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims.
• Grandiose Sense of Self
Feels entitled to certain things as "their right."
• Pathological Lying
Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests.
• Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt
A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.
• Shallow Emotions
When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.
• Incapacity for Love
• Need for Stimulation
Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common.
• Callousness/Lack of Empathy
Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them.
• Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature
Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others.
• Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency
Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet "gets by" by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc.
• Irresponsibility/Unreliability
Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed.
• Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity
Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts.
• Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle
Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively.
• Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility
Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily.
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Other Related Qualities:
1. Contemptuous of those who seek to understand them
2. Does not perceive that anything is wrong with them
3. Authoritarian
4. Secretive
5. Paranoid
6. Only rarely in difficulty with the law, but seeks out situations where their tyrannical behavior will be tolerated, condoned, or admired
7. Conventional appearance
8. Goal of enslavement of their victim(s)
9. Exercises despotic control over every aspect of the victim's life
10. Has an emotional need to justify their crimes and therefore needs their victim's affirmation (respect, gratitude and love)
11. Ultimate goal is the creation of a willing victim
12. Incapable of real human attachment to another
13. Unable to feel remorse or guilt
14. Extreme narcissism and grandiose
15. May state readily that their goal is to rule the world
Saturday, September 18, 2010
Saturday, June 26, 2010
NATALEE HOLLOWAY – RUNAWAY BABE
NATALEE HOLLOWAY
WAS NATALEE A VICTIM OF ABUSE?
A TROUBLED TEENAGER?
Contrary to popular belief, the reason for Beth Twitty’s rushed visit, in private jet with medi-vac jet in tow, to Aruba, was not that Natalee had disappeared or had gone missing, but that Natalee had told her over the phone that she was not returning home after vacation due to the ongoing abuse she was experiencing at home and that she’d had enough.
Why didn’t Natalee want to go home?
Was Natalee Holloway a victim of abuse at home? If so, that would explain why she told her mother that she did not want to go home. She may have in her drunken state in Aruba mentioned her abuse to anyone who would listen and she may have found comfort in some person’s sympathetic response. Remember, Joran stated that Natalee did say to him that her mother was like a ‘Hitler’, she may have said that and more to Joran and others.
There is no evidence In this poster, first circulated in Aruba on the evening
Natalee Holloway ‘disappeared’, to suggest a kidnapping or that a missing person was sought, rather, the poster shows a desperate plea by Beth Holloway Twitty to: “Please call me Hootie, I miss you and love you. Mom is here on Aruba and I really want to talk to you. Please call me on my local cel phone 962-9593 – Big Hootie. To anyone who might know where Natalee is – Please help me find my daughter. Any information leading to her safe return to the United States will be greatly appreciated!”
The poster shows a mothers request for her daughter to contact her, whom she misses and loves. In other words; all is forgiven so please call me, we can work it out, no need to go this far, we are here on Aruba for you.
“Mom is here on Aruba and I really want to talk to you.” What does this statement imply? It implies the mother is well aware of an ongoing concern within the family and that she is reaching out to her daughter for reconciliation. For contact, a phone call, anything at all. Mom is saying call me. Let me talk to you. I need to talk to you. Don’t do this. It’s ok.
The connotation of the mother’s written text within this poster is consistent when a child tells her family that she does not want to come home and that the child is in distress. The mother attempts to talk her out of current state of mind by requesting contact. The poster proves Beth Holloway Twitty’s knowledge that Natalee was not missing but simply did not want to return home. Natalee did not want to go home simply because she did not want to be abused any longer.
Was Natalee in re-hab for drug abuse? Was Natalee alcoholic? Was Natalee abused, sexually, her step father Jug Twitty.
Beth Holloway Twitty arrived on Aruba at 19:45, approximately 15 hours after Joran van der Sloot last saw Natalee at 05:00, with above posters printed.
Could this entire disappearance situation of Natalee Holloway be as simple as Natalee running away from home while on vacation? That she called her mother Beth Twitty and told her that she was running away, that she was abused by her stepfather and could not tolerate it any longer. This simple scenario certainly warrants serious consideration given that many teenagers do runaway run away from home and most do for reasons relating to some form of abuse and/or misunderstanding during the formative years.
The possibility that Natalee ran away from home would take this case into another dimension which could explain the..more to come
WAS NATALEE A VICTIM OF ABUSE?
A TROUBLED TEENAGER?
Contrary to popular belief, the reason for Beth Twitty’s rushed visit, in private jet with medi-vac jet in tow, to Aruba, was not that Natalee had disappeared or had gone missing, but that Natalee had told her over the phone that she was not returning home after vacation due to the ongoing abuse she was experiencing at home and that she’d had enough.Why didn’t Natalee want to go home?
Was Natalee Holloway a victim of abuse at home? If so, that would explain why she told her mother that she did not want to go home. She may have in her drunken state in Aruba mentioned her abuse to anyone who would listen and she may have found comfort in some person’s sympathetic response. Remember, Joran stated that Natalee did say to him that her mother was like a ‘Hitler’, she may have said that and more to Joran and others.
There is no evidence In this poster, first circulated in Aruba on the evening
Natalee Holloway ‘disappeared’, to suggest a kidnapping or that a missing person was sought, rather, the poster shows a desperate plea by Beth Holloway Twitty to: “Please call me Hootie, I miss you and love you. Mom is here on Aruba and I really want to talk to you. Please call me on my local cel phone 962-9593 – Big Hootie. To anyone who might know where Natalee is – Please help me find my daughter. Any information leading to her safe return to the United States will be greatly appreciated!”The poster shows a mothers request for her daughter to contact her, whom she misses and loves. In other words; all is forgiven so please call me, we can work it out, no need to go this far, we are here on Aruba for you.
“Mom is here on Aruba and I really want to talk to you.” What does this statement imply? It implies the mother is well aware of an ongoing concern within the family and that she is reaching out to her daughter for reconciliation. For contact, a phone call, anything at all. Mom is saying call me. Let me talk to you. I need to talk to you. Don’t do this. It’s ok.
The connotation of the mother’s written text within this poster is consistent when a child tells her family that she does not want to come home and that the child is in distress. The mother attempts to talk her out of current state of mind by requesting contact. The poster proves Beth Holloway Twitty’s knowledge that Natalee was not missing but simply did not want to return home. Natalee did not want to go home simply because she did not want to be abused any longer.
Was Natalee in re-hab for drug abuse? Was Natalee alcoholic? Was Natalee abused, sexually, her step father Jug Twitty.
Beth Holloway Twitty arrived on Aruba at 19:45, approximately 15 hours after Joran van der Sloot last saw Natalee at 05:00, with above posters printed.
Could this entire disappearance situation of Natalee Holloway be as simple as Natalee running away from home while on vacation? That she called her mother Beth Twitty and told her that she was running away, that she was abused by her stepfather and could not tolerate it any longer. This simple scenario certainly warrants serious consideration given that many teenagers do runaway run away from home and most do for reasons relating to some form of abuse and/or misunderstanding during the formative years.
The possibility that Natalee ran away from home would take this case into another dimension which could explain the..more to come
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
Joran van der Sloot FRAMED!
Lamb a la Llama in Peru?In 1999 Jossy Mansur and his brother Luis Mansur sued the Netherlands government before the United Nations Human Rights Committee for disseminating what the Aruban government termed a top secret report that claimed that the Mansurs were involved in organized crime. The report by the Dutch Internal Security Service draws a picture of security in Aruba and mentions that foreign services fighting crime in the region are almost unanimous in their opinion that the predominant image of the Aruban business community is one of joint services towards (laundering specialists of) regional drug cartels.
The report mentions the Mansurs by name and portrays them as criminals who were associated with criminal organizations involved in drugs trafficking, gun trafficking and laundering money obtained from criminal activities. Despite the fact that the report was classified as top secret it was leaked to the press and its contents became public. The suit was dismissed on procedural grounds for failure to exhaust Mansur's civil remedies in the Netherlands courts.
Paulus Van Der Sloot, father of Joran Van Der Sloot, was a prominent Aruban lawyer (studying to become a judge) involved in the “top secret report”. His level of participation or position in the report is not known.
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